Letting go of what was holding me back!

  • Occupation :Opera singer 
  • Age: 30
  • Born in: Moscow
  • Lives in: New York
  • Family: In a relationship 


Today we had the pleasure to meet with alternative classical music singer Radmila Lolly and enjoy some deep conversation about her Journey into self discovery. Radmila shared with us in a deep and honest way, just as she is in her everyday life. Here is what we spoke about:

1.What do You appreciate the most about Synergy having gone through? 

As a result of going through the Synergy programs I have been able to shed self-doubts and old beliefs that were holding me back. I’ve learned to appreciate my unique voice and ways I can contribute to the world around me. I feel free and full of energy and I’m working every day to fulfill my goals. What lived in the world of dreams and fantasy has become reality including my recent performance at Carnegie Hall.

2. If you summed up the people who walk through the Synergy doors, how would you describe them overall? 

Most of the people I have met at Synergy are looking to improve their lives and be the best they can be. I have met countless interesting, powerful and diverse folks who are constantly in the inquiry of playing an even bigger game in their life. And I believe those who enter Synergy have a big love, respect and appreciation to the people that suggested this journey. After all, this is a gift you give yourself. 

3. About yourself what has this journey has illuminated?

Synergy helped me clarify my real goals and understand that everything in life is achievable. In the past I thought of my goals as a very high mountain. I would create a strategy; start climbing yet in the beginning the gear was heavy. I’ve often given up, lacking the confidence and faith that things will work out. The ability to be crystal clear on my vision along with the fortitude to persevere until successful is something I will be forever grateful for!

 4. What has surprised or shocked you the most from your Synergy journey?

After graduating, I began to do things that I had always thought of but was afraid that people would judge me.  It’s so important to start and when you do, the universe starts working with you. And as I mentioned before, it’s important to have clear goals. I was also surprised to be able to access all of the resources within myself. I knew they existed but I was so scared to let it come out. 

5. What did you get to create that was the result of your choice to become unstoppable?

I debuted at Carnegie hall on March 28 of 2016 with a performance and release of my debut album. This is a direct result of  believing in myself. 

Here is my Journey: For many years I’ve lived next door to Carnegie Hall, on a daily base I would pass by and look at the posters knowing that one day I would be there. It was a strange feeling and I would ask myself “How will this happen?” But I knew it would happen. I didn’t know what would bring me there, all I knew was if I focus, BELIEVE in myself and KNOW I’m ENOUGH, I would be able to make it happen.

In the fall of 2015 I said to myself it’s time Radmila, I was ready to record my album and release it at CH. Looking back at it, it was a lot of challenges but I didn’t feel them at all because I had a goal and I knew that if I didn’t go for it I would regret it for the rest of my life.

I’m clear that I want to reach an old age and not arrive with a long list of regrets. That’s why I always say how important it is to make sure you have a foundation and once that’s in place, go for it and build! I continue to learn and grow and take on life each day with both hands. Thank you to Synergy for freeing me up from those parts of myself that were holding me back.  After my performance I received a lot of amazing feedback and support and I’m truly thankful for all the love in my life.

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